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Amayeri umusore yakifashisha agatereta inkumi y’inzozi ze

Dore utuntu tw'ibanga twagufasha gukurura abakobwa b'inzozi zawe

Nta musore n’umwe udaharanira kuzana umukobwa yishimira ndetse unyura umutima we kurenza abandi bose. Gusa usanga inzitizi zituma benshi batibikaho abakobwa b’inzozi zabo ari ukubera kutamenya uburyo bakoresha ngo babagereho.



Rimwe na rimwe umuntu yifuza kugera ku kintu ariko ntabashe kukigeraho, akenshi bitewe no kutamenya uko abyitwaramo cyangwa se ntakurikize inama agirwa.

Menya utuntu tw’ibanga twagufasha gukurura abakobwa b’inzozi zawe

Akenshi usanga abasore benshi baba bifitemo akantu k’ubwoba no gukomeza ibintu iyo babonye umukobwa w’inzozi zabo bifuza, bikabagora ndetse bikagera n’aho biheba, kubera ukuntu baba baragerageje gushaka uwo mukobwa ariko ntibabashe kumubona, bagahora bababaye kandi bakomeza kwibaza uko bakwibana murugo rwa bonyine.

Niba wifuza gutereta umukobwa, kumureba gusa ntacyo byakumarira, nk’uko buri umwe wese yabyibonera, ibikorwa uzakorera uwo mukobwa ndetse n’abantu muri rusange nibyo bizaguha umusaruro . Kugira ngo ibintu bibe byakorohera, ugomba kwiga neza kuri ibi bintu bitatu tugiye kukubwira hano, byerekeranye n’ ibanga k’ utuntu twagufasha gukurura abakobwa, gutereta no kwigarurira umukobwa w’inzozi zawe.

1.Kwigaragaza kandi ukagaragara neza:

Kuri aka kantu k’ibanga ka mbere, garagaza ko wifitiye ikizere uhereye ku myambaro n’uko witwara. Witegereza abandi bantu ko bakwereka uko ugomba kwitwara no kwambara neza ukaberwa, aho uri hose jya uhora wambaye neza kandi ufite isuku bizakugeza kure.

Ugomba kumenya ko utagomba kwisumbukuruza ngo wambare ibikurenze, ibihenze nk’ibyabandi bakire bakurenze, ahubwo ukeneye ibituma utandukana n’abandi kandi ukagaragara neza mu bandi.

2.Menya gukurura amaso y ’abakobwa:

Umugambi wawe ni kwigaragaza aho uri hose kugirango abakobwa bakurebe aho kureba abandi basore bakwegereye. Mu basore benshi muba muri kumwe cyangwa baba bakwegereye, ugomba kuba ufite ikintu cyawe cy ’umwihariko kigutandukanya nabo, ikintu cyatuma abakobwa bose bakureba aho kureba abandi muri kumwe.

Kimwe mu byagufasha kugera kuri iyi ntego ni uguherekezwa n’abakobwa b’inshuti zawe ahantu henshi ugiye, cyane ko iyo unafite inshuti z’abahungu mugendana nazo ziba zikeneye abakunzi .

Iyo uri kumwe nabo agaciro kawe kariyongera cyane kandi abakobwa bazagufata nk ’umugabo ubakurura kandi bumve ko uri uwo kwizerwa kuko ’abakobwa mugendana baba bakwizeye . Ibi bizakurura umukobwa w’inzozi zawe, atangire akwiyumvemo, atangire anabaririze ibikwerekeyeho .

3.Gushakisha inzira yamugeraho:

Menya ko kwiyegereza abakobwa bigomba kuba biri mu buzima bwawe bwa buri munsi, ugomba kumenya kubasekera ku buryo ubusabane hagati yanyu bugaragarira buri wese, kandi unagerageze kuganiriza abakobwa bose beza musanzwe muziranye.

Mu gihe wabonye umukobwa w’inzozi zawe, shakisha ahantu akunda kuba ari cyangwa aho akorera, ujye uhigenza batangire bakumenye, nawe utangire umwinjirire umuganiriza.

Numara kuba wamugezeho mwiyegereze kandi wiyegereze n’abandi bakobwa b’inshuti ze n’abo bagendana, byagufasha kurushaho ushoboye guhitamo muri abo uwo wifuza kandi ubona akwitayeho, ukamugira inshuti isanzwe . Umaze kubigeraho, igisigaye uzaba ukeneye ikindi kintu gikurura abakobwa bita “guhuza.”

Guhuza bizagufasha kwihutisha ibintu kugira ngo umukobwa w’inzozi zawe atandukane n’abandi maze abe yagukunda bizira uburyarya. Ibanga ririmo hano ni ugushaka ikintu muhuriyeho, kikabahuza kandi ukabikora mugihe kitarambiranye uhereye ku nshuro ya mbere umuganirije.

Shyiraho Igitekerezo!

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